Sessions

There is a place for fantasy and let’s face it most of what I do is based on fantasy but when YOU are trapped in the realm of fantasy and unable to connect to reality this is sadly a one-way ticket to disappointment.

I see it all the time, emails from the unrealistic complaining about “let downs” by other Mistresses but when you try to drill down why they feel “let down” it usually comes down to their “perfect fantasy” wasn’t fulfilled.  In most cases the reality can never ever match what is in their head.

The imagination is an amazing thing where anything and everything is possible, you can magically float on air, your body can be distorted in a variety of impossible positions without breaking or dislocating, you can tolerate incredible temperatures without burning etc etc .  Imagination enables you to do anything and you don’t have to consider your own physical restrictions, your safety or even what equipment is needed.

The more sensible “fantasists” realise that imagination feeds the impossible and that is why many choose to visit an experienced professional dominatrix as they know their wellbeing is of the utmost importance and their requirements as far as humanly possibly will be catered for with skill and grace and enjoy the pleasures of sensations whether they be tormenting or enjoyable in a subspace leaving the issues of “reality” in the hands of your dominatrix.

The less experienced “fantasist” will simply continue to chase the impossible blaming those around them for their own lack of ability to tune into a happy place between the unachievable fantasy and the restrictions of reality.  These are the people that have no respect for the time of others and will happily attempt to waste my time.

So, to help those that are deluded in their thinking that an initial contact of a wank email (or indeed phone call) will impress I have summarised below what to include and what to avoid:

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A polite salutation addressing me correctly

A succinct and polite request for the date, time and duration you wish to session.  Obviously the broader the range of time you have available the more likely you are to find a gap in my busy diary.

A brief note of your experience.  I do not want to know details of every encounter you have had since the age of 18, what your past dommes enjoyed, what your wife likes or doesn’t like!  I will have given up reading your email before I get to the second sentence.  A mere “This is my first visit to a professional dominatrix” or “I have many years’ experience in xx” will do.

A note of your likes, ie specific areas such as CP or electroplay and to what level.  Stating “BDSM” tells me nothing other than you have no idea about anything.

A note of your hard limits.

You also need to include your mobile phone number, so it can be noted on my phone for when you are requested to call.

Remember to always be polite and courteous any derogatory language will simply result in you being blocked.

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If you feel you can’t get across what you are looking for in this format I would recommend you stay safely cosseted in your own imagination rather than waste the time of real people.

Ms Birch x

Sissy wearing nylons

Always one to think of recycling and doing my bit for the environment I’ve have the perfect use for my used nylons.  They make perfect restraints in a little bit of nylon bondage.  You know who much I just adore having you bound and vulnerable at my feet!

Gorgeously modeled by Slave Boy who ever so eagerly, for the first time ever, slipped into pretty knickers, suspender belt with beautiful fully fashioned stockings (FFS) and heels.  Nothing like baptism by fire, why stop at wearing nylons lets go the whole hog.

Ahh doesn’t she look cute?

My box of used nylons is filling up and my draw of new FFS is emptying [hint].  Maybe you will be the next one to test the suitability of nylons as restraints – be assured you won’t escape them.

Ms Birch x

Maid in Training

I’ve never been a lover of 30 minute sessions but how things have changed.

My view was that they are rushed and that there is no time to connect and build on experiences within the session.

I’ve now had a total turn around and am appreciating the 30 minute packed session.

Why packed?

Packed because they are fast moving and adrenaline packed.  A very different dynamic to the longer sessions which give the perfect opportunity to experiences lots of different areas and build trust while stretching those boundaries which you know I simply adore doing.

The 30 minute packed sessions are perfect to experience one element such as forced foot worship or perhaps cock and ball torture (CBT) is your thing or perhaps a packed 30 minutes of corporal punishment (CP).

So the upshot is that I am now offering a wider range of 30 minute sessions.

Simply ring to arrange to see what you can take.

Ms Birch x

Visit Ms Birch in the Tea Room

You are invited to join me for an open and relaxed chat while enjoying a cup of tea in my Tea Room.

The Tea Room is perfect for those of you that are new to the scene and maybe too nervous to dip your toe into the pool of kink and fetish or maybe you are not sure in what direction to go or perhaps inquisitive as to what is available in a professional domination session.

In the Tea Room you are able to ask those burning questions, discuss where your interests lie and what you are looking to achieve and how a session may help you in an open and non-judgemental environment. You will soon relax in the comfortable lounge and may even like to have a peek at my Chambers before deciding if you are ready to take the plunge into a “real” session.  If you wish to arrange a session designed to meet your needs we can match diaries to arrange or you may simply go away and ponder on our chat and ring my booking line when you are ready.

For the more experienced kinkster The Tea Room is also an ideal venue for you to discuss a more complicated scenario or new areas you wish to explore.  Sometimes you may just want to discuss how you feel that’s ok too.

If a chat with me in The Tea Room appeals to you simply call the booking line stating you would like to visit the Tea Room.  Ensure you know what date and time you want to visit before calling, just in case you are a chancer please note pretending you want a booking does not give you a free Tea Room chat over the phone.

On occasion it may be possible for a maid to be available to serve our beverage however, during our chat you will be assured total privacy.  You will need to be flexible on times if you wish my maid to be present to arrange around life commitments.

Please note my usual fees apply to attend the Tea Room and I will be dressed in a professional and comfortable style.

I look forward to chatting with you soon.

Ms Birch x

Butt Candle Holder

We’ve all been there haven’t we?

Lovely quiet evening and all that is missing is a few candles with those delicate flames flickering in the draft.  So what do you do when you just can’t find those candle holders.

Never one to be beaten by such a little detail all you need to solve this problem is a willing slave, lots of coloured candles, pouring wax and voila a bespoke candle holder.  See above for one I made earlier.

Candle holders need only apply using my booking line number.  I wonder what artistic wax pictures I will select for you?

Ms Birch x

Stop wriggling

You know you want to but you are apprehensive and the nerves are getting the better of you…

I can sense your anxieties as you step through the door and follow me along the hallway.  Of course I know you are nervous and your heart is pounding, your eyes dart all around but in your panic you are not seeing anything – not sure why you are here, what possessed you to pick up the phone and book?

Fast forward to feeling those restraints tied around your shaking wrists and your arms are pulled up high above you…

The ankle restraints are fastened securely in place and the spreader bar deftly clipped into place forcing your legs wide apart, balance isn’t a skill you now possess…

You feel the release as you submit, you have to submit to me, your vulnerability reassuringly washing over you, you are mine, you were mine the minute you stepped through that doorway you just didn’t know it.

I sense your hopelessness and I’m not happy you are so wrapped up in your own emotions that you are not taking the appropriate care to admire me.  I step close into your space, your weight being held from the wrist restraints hanging there pathetically making no effort head lolling.  Hound dog comes to mind and that will not do…

I cup your face with my hands and raise your head to look directly into my eyes and whisper…

You feel a lurch in your stomach and that burning sensation of fear that is now running through your veins.  Your already erect penis suffers a strong uncontrollable twitch causing it to brush against my clothing hard enough that I notice.  You know instinctively that is not good and you must try and control yourself better.  Your whole body stiffens not sure what will follow your heart is beating so fast you can hear your it, why oh why are you here?  As you start to take notice of my voice and start to focus on the words and gaze into my dark eyes you start to feel a wave of release and your body relaxes ready…

So many sensations of the mind and body in such a short space of time surely you are privileged to have the ability to suffer this experience…

Ms Birch x

Obedient Doggy I have a treat for you

It’s been too long since you had the pleasure of my musings but alas I’ve been busy nurturing my tender buds and oh boy I have been having fun tormenting you 🙂

Several sessions stand out more than others – sorry but that is just how it is!

I do so enjoy sessions that are relaxed and interactive, you being poker faced and trying to hide your reactions really bores me.

One of the most relaxed sessions in the last few months was with Slave P (see his testimonial back in March), he arrived before I was properly ready so was put to good use massaging moisturiser into my pretty feet taking extra care around my recently painted toe nails.  It wasn’t long though before i had him hanging and writhing in painful pleasure with his cock and balls covered in lovely colourful pegs – those of you that know me have come to realise I am particularly partial to CBT amongst other things…

Then we have a recent ball busting and CBT session with the rather Gorgeous G who followed my direction perfectly obeying my instructions to enable him to extend those limited boundaries of his.  Your Mistress has ways of helping you achieve your goal but is empathic enough to spot when you truly have reached your maximum.  You must submit to me fully and trust to get the most out of our sessions.  It was so sweet at the end of the session when dear GG whimpered “that was harsher than I’m used to” but it was clear he was pleased with himself.

I’m still giggling to myself about a fabulous session last week, never have I experienced a pain masochist who was so laid back where both our laughter rang out throughout the session.  Should I be questioning how much I am enjoying sessions lately?  Sadly I didn’t have my camera to hand but you would have adored to see the welts and bruises on his bare bottom from hand spanking, hairbrush, leather tawse, cane, crop, wooden paddle, and training whip.  Simply a fabulous session emcompassing so many areas of interest.  Definitely looking forward to repeating that one.

Don’t forget to let me (and others) know how much you enjoyed our sessions – email me your testimonial and I will publish it here on my website.

This week I quite fancy a lots of variety, maybe a little sissification and a photoshoot of you dressed, maid trianing, of course CBT and ball busting blah de blah, don’t let me down.

Finally, a note for C – get yourself organised I’m waiting, you know who you are and I don’t appreciate being ignored, no work and life aren’t a good enough excuse my stiletto boots need attention!

Toodle Pips

Ms Birch x

First timer eyes watering in humbler

Mmmmm yesterday was such a hoot!

One session that particularly stood out was a newbie.  Although he had seen Mistresses before he had never been to see Amelia Birch – what a treat he had in store.

First time in the eye watering humbler – before he had chance to think about it he was clamped into the humbler and instructed on standing!  A brave attempt but still needs work – that will be for the next session when kindness will not be a word to describe my demands of him!

More interesting were the shades of grey to green he turned as he was made to watch as I inserted the urethral sounds into his penis.  Obviously there was no escape as he was tightly bound 😉  Mini wand out and placed against the sounds he was soon thanking me and begging for the next size up once.

So here’s to many more firsts.

Ms Birch x

Ms Amelia Birch’s place is around 5 hours drive away from where I live, but I firmly believe that a good Mistress is worth travelling for.

When I arrived at her place in Southampton, I was greeted with a friendly smile. Ms Amelia Birch has a fantastic curvy figure and a beautiful face. She is a real turn on!

After a chat over a cup of tea, the session began.

I was allowed to worship her beautiful sexy feet, but then I was made to suffer for it with a hand and paddle spanking followed by firm restraint, nipple torture and lots of CBT.

Looking into her beautiful eyes enabled me to take far more pain than I can normally take, and I loved every moment of it.

There was no obvious clock watching and the session seemed to go on for ages, until I was finally allowed a happy ending.

Ms Amelia Birch is worth travelling for, and I will definitely go back. The 5 hour drive back will be remembered for the warm glow of my backside!

Thank you ms Amelia Birch for a truly wonderful experience.

slave p
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Ms Amelia Birch Ball Busting

What can I say about this week other than fabulous ~ a couple of sessions stand out as being particularly fun.

One was where I had to spank a rather cheeky minion extra hard and then tie him to the bed for his caning! Mmmmm that was so exhilerating I do adore OTK spanking and caning.

Another fabulous session involved foot worship and bondage with CBT. I just loved how he writhed so much taking the pleasure I was inflicting on him that one of the chains holding him actually snapped! Note to self more chains needed ~ well the chink of chains is such a gorgeous sound.

I’ve also been introduced to the concept of the “Court of Love” it’s really caught my imagination and I’m sure we can use that in some sessions so more research is underway.

Lots of new pics will be posted soon courtesy of the lovely Mr P. A really good day was had taking these with lots of giggles along the way.

Don’t forget to email your testimonials to me after your sessions and I will pop these up on my site.

Tomorrow I won’t be answering the booking line until 2pm but the rest of the week I will be answering, when I am able, between 10am and 6pm.

Ms Birch x